Thursday, May 7, 2009

Any better way to judge?

A senior person gets to know a person by looking into their eyes. How true is that? I believe the saying is true. Better judgment than judging a person by appearance. By appearance, people choose to show what they want to show and you only get what they want you to have. Maybe the eyes are directly connected to the heart, but how much you can see by the naked eyes. And what if you meet some one with “chicken's eyes”? That looks like this…
How do you judge this heart… unexplainable.
I realize my boss always stare right into my eyes when he asks a question. And my father stares right into my eyes while asking questions too. Why? Are they so desperate to control everything? What’s the big deal when a person wants to hide? I wonder what they found in my eyes because I don’t avoid eye contact (except when I’m shy). My father thought me to open my eyes 3times bigger and stare back at them in such situation. It actually works. Try it.You should be seeing “nothing” in my eyes. They are just eyes…

2 comments:

Jitzu said...

Eyes - the first reaction. It reveals whether a person is dishonest, buying time, paying attention or blank. It doesn't tells the content but the motive behind.

Staring back with eyes 3 times larger is working, simply because you threw away all the content and choose to show fake information (or no information) through the eyes.

What I see? From your many eyes, you are thinking a lot. Questioning the uncertainties. The eyes are seeing something. Which is 'nothing'. You are trying to see nothing. But inside is everything...

Aster Ng said...

hahaha.. yes, teacher!