Live the life you want to live

There is a magic formula provides by the horoscope, how many of us do believe in that? When you want to find the best partner ever, you look at their star sign? When you want to find a soul mate, u asks for their star sign? When you had fight with some one, you compare both of the star signs? And says “oh… no wonder, we have different interest/personalities”. Every one has different personalities. No one shares the total same experience in his or her life. The problems occur more often when you keep looking towards them. I guess, there’s only one possibilities of getting someone who has a perfect personalities with you – get an imaginary friend, you can have one (or even as much as you want) immediately. There is no exact amount for how many categories of people out there on earth. If you love a person, you accept the whole of them, no matter the personality’s suit or not, both of you will synchronize together. Instead of believing some rules that are so abstract, why not try to take some personality/psychology test to know more about you and others? Isn’t the 2nd way makes more sense? Am I too stupid to make use of the horoscope’s advice or others just couldn’t afford to have faith/responsibilities? If it is just “RISK” that people are trying to avoid in their whole life, why not just get rid of human and the world? Will there be regrets by the end of the day, when we choose not to try things out just because of some rules, and blinding up ourselves with "what kind of person" we are?

"The future is in our hands"<< why is it so pressure to face that?

Nothing new under the sun

Came across a post today, glad to know there's someone on the other side of world, facing the same life with me currently. At least, I felt not so awkward towards myself now.
"Sometimes I get swept up with the intensity of how feelings change.. Knowing a person all your life, loving with all you have and then getting hurt badly. Then you look at them today and you feel.. absolutely nothing. No anger, no pain, no lingering feelings.. nothing." by Thresca

Well, people before me might have experienced this before, it’s actually nothing new...
"What has been will be again,
what has been done will be done again;
there is nothing new under the sun."
(Ecclesiastes 1:9)

合唱

I love them all. They are just beautiful.

我的回忆不是我的 (泳儿+海鸣威)


明天以後 (林峰+泳兒)


自欺欺人 (Alex+Theresa)


十分．愛 (Alex & Stephy)


好好戀愛 (方力申+鄧麗欣)


我的最愛 (方力申 & 鄧麗欣)

What am I really made of?

Realizations.
I know things like this would happen.
But still, that is the moment I’m most afraid of.
When you finally wake up and see the facts.
That is the fact weather you accept it or not.
It just comes, weather you are prepared or not.
You are out of control.
Human change.
Colors fade.
And the brains just think by itself.
Who will sleep forever?
Different you in ever stage of life.
Ever predict whom the person you are becoming?
Does it counts on every day’s routine?
People don’t know when and how they have change.
Where is the tweaked point?
Who do you expect to accept you?
When you’re not prepared to accept yourself.
What am I really made of?
Wondering when you’ve changed.
If there’s a power supply for Feelings…
I will shut it down, without having a second thought.
If there’s a way, to choose what to feel…
Like an option of coffee or tea?
There’s a feeling which you are suppose to have,
The feeling that will please every one once you owned it.
But, you are not having it.
There’s something, which you really hope it will stay.
But, the fact is, nothing stays forever.
Nothing is going to be enough.
Ever said “I’ll not change.” “I’ll not leave” out loud?
What will happen when you are the one who’ve changed?
Or the first one to leave the game?
Will you blame yourself for the rest of your life?

Any better way to judge?

A senior person gets to know a person by looking into their eyes. How true is that? I believe the saying is true. Better judgment than judging a person by appearance. By appearance, people choose to show what they want to show and you only get what they want you to have. Maybe the eyes are directly connected to the heart, but how much you can see by the naked eyes. And what if you meet some one with “chicken's eyes”? That looks like this…
How do you judge this heart… unexplainable.
I realize my boss always stare right into my eyes when he asks a question. And my father stares right into my eyes while asking questions too. Why? Are they so desperate to control everything? What’s the big deal when a person wants to hide? I wonder what they found in my eyes because I don’t avoid eye contact (except when I’m shy). My father thought me to open my eyes 3times bigger and stare back at them in such situation. It actually works. Try it.You should be seeing “nothing” in my eyes. They are just eyes…

Button Square

A friend of mine had a little dream and started off this little online boutique at http://buttonsquare.blogspot.com/
I can see it is a good start, the dresses are well designed. Wish you all the best Sab!
Happy shopping to all of you :]